"Sexting:" Innocent Exploration?

. Tuesday, May 26
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Some youths in the US now face pornography charges for "sexting," using a cell phone to send nude images of themselves to friends. Peter Cumming, a York University professor, claims that the practice is a modern-day version of spin-the-bottle or strip poker. He says there needs to be a line between nudity and pornography, and that sexting is just another way of exploring sexuality.

Earlier this year, three teenage girls were caught with a photo of two girls from the waist up, wearing only a bra. The girls were sentenced to five weeks of behavior courses and ordered drug tests. One boy was labeled a sex offender for sending his girlfriend's parents a nude photo of her after an argument.

Cummings final argument was, "online activities are safer than traditional sexual games because there is no immediate physical contact and thus are less likely to lead to pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases."

A family planning organization, no name mentioned, did a survey and found that 20 percent of American teenagers have participated in sexting.

As innocent as it may be for teenagers to send nude photos of themselves to their peers, it is not difficult to get those photos online. It wouldn't take a crafty teenager much to hook up with a buyer of teen nude photos. And, as quickly as teenagers change their minds about anything, including the person they are currently dating, sexting is probably already a major supplier of child pornography.

A parent I know has already implemented a solution: Her teenagers do not have texting on their cell phones.

Instead of labeling teenagers sex offenders for the rest of their lives - and ruining their lives - why not promote parental involvement and common sense intervention?


Susan Boyle Proves that Looks Ain't What Counts in Music

. Sunday, May 24
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Today is the day of Britain's Got Talent semi-final, and Susan Boyle is ready. There's no word about which song she'll sing, and she swears she won't transform herself either. She is just concentrating on her performance. Her performance will hit the web instantly on the Britain's Got Talent site.

The photos of Boyle available online show this "frumpy" woman caught quite unaware by the media attention, particularly the paparazzi. For the last month, she has become an overnight sensation. How this takes its toll on her will play out in today's performance.

Think about 30 or 40 years ago, during the time before cable TV and MTV, before the Internet, and you will find many popular musicians of the day were physically unattractive. Their music spoke for itself and dominated the consideration of whether the musician was any good. You might see a photo on an album cover, or they might appear on a TV variety show, but still, the looks - good or bad - played a much lesser role in popularity than it does today. Those that did have the looks would branch into TV as a way of promoting perhaps a less than stellar musical talent.

The question becomes one of just how much real talent goes unheard just because the physical package isn't considered attractive? Susan Boyle is proof of that.

Mom and Son Now Fugitives

. Wednesday, May 20
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Colleen and son Daniel Hauser are now on the run, having fled Monday night before Tuesday's court date to reveal the results of the latest x-rays and tests done to check the status of Daneil's Hodgkin's lymphoma. The tumor has returned to its pre-chemo treatment size and is pressing on the port placed in his chest to deliver the chemo therapy, causing a considerable amount of pain. Daniel's doctor said that he is "at risk of substantial physical harm if no action is taken." Police believe that mother and son are traveling with Susan Daya, a California lawyer, and Billy Best, a man who had run away from home to avoid chemo therapy for a cancer similar to Daniel's in 1994 and who is now advocating publicly for Daniel. Collen Hauser is now charged with medical neglect, contempt and kidnapping, and a nation-wide search is on.